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A Young Mother

Alicia* entered the YFS Therapeutic Foster Care program at 16 years of age, a scared little girl who had never taken care of herself and now she had a brand new baby of her own. She and her family had been displaced following Hurricane Katrina. She talked about her biological family and how they sustained themselves with drugs, violence, and prostitution. She too, had been involved in that way of life as long as she could remember. She cried when she looked at her child and promised her child never to let him live like that. She begged anyone to take her child and raise him, not because she did not love him, but she was afraid she could never raise him by herself. The option of putting the baby up for adoption was explored with her counselor, but ultimately, the goal became to teach this new mom how to raise her own baby and care for herself in the process. We requested that mother and child be moved into one of our therapeutic foster homes together so that this young mother could learn to raise her child in a stable, healthy environment. She was enrolled in parenting classes and child care classes and found employment in a day care center where she could take her son with her and cares for him as she worked. This young mother aged out at 18 years old, a capable mom with a healthy son. She kept her promise to her child, but with assistance, she was able to do it herself instead of placing this child in the system.

*Names have been changed to protect confidentiality and privacy. 

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